Have you ever wondered why your ex was a psycho? Or why you freak out at the sound of a closed door? Could it be the result of a disfunctional relationship with your parents? Maybe you had a traumatic experience with an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. The next time you get upset at your significant other stop for a moment and think: What, When, Why, and How? What made them do what they did? When did it happen? Why did it happen? How did it affect them and how will it affect you? There’s two sides to every story.