Realizing when you were wrong can be the hardest thing you ever do but it can also be the most rewarding. As an optimist I’m always striving to look for the brighter side of a bad situation, or I trap myself into unhealthy situations in order to reap the positive benefits. Foolish, some might say. Gold-digger? Ha! I choose to look at it from a business stand point. For instance, you’ve got two prime candidates for a relationship. They both love you and you love them both in your own special way. Basically, you love them for different reasons. If you lived in a perfect world you could mesh them both together and live happily ever after, but realistically life sucks and you just have to make a choice. Pursue Candidate A and risk ruining a beautiful friendship or pursue Candidate B and risk damaging multiple lives. Either way, you’re not going to be satisfied because neither one is the complete package. Destined to be miserable. Destined to be lonely. What would you do?